From reading your post it was obvious that you both loved each other very much. There is no greater gift than having a life partner return your love. My sincere condolences to you. May God bless you all.

Black Flag and War to the Knife, by Tom Goodrich. Both are the starting points. Must reads. The next MUST HAVE is Jay Monahans classic, Civil War on the Western Border. Excellent. Bloody Bill Anderson by Castel and Goodrich The Devil Knows How To Ride, Leslie Quantrill's War, Schultz. All are excell...